Amid the noise and busyness that often define December, renowned Spanish priest Father Ignacio Amorós proposes three simple Advent customs families can embrace as concrete ways to prepare their hearts for the coming of Jesus.
In a recent episode of the podcast Mantita y Fe, Father Amorós invited listeners to live Advent with meaning, hope, and a renewed openness of heart.
Father Amorós noted that Christmas is often experienced today amid constant noise, rushing, and shopping. For that reason, he said, it is essential to pause—to return to silence, prayer, and active waiting—to prepare the heart for the mystery of God’s coming.
During the conversation, the priest highlighted three Advent traditions that are especially meaningful for families as they prepare for Christmas.
1) The Nativity Scene: Contemplating the Humility of God
The first custom Father Amorós recommends is placing a Nativity scene, or crèche, in the home—even if space is limited. This tradition, which dates back to Saint Francis of Assisi, allows families to reflect on “the day that changed the world,” when God chose to enter history in the humility of a cave in Bethlehem.
“I think it’s a beautiful custom. There are many children who, together with their families, go out to buy little shepherds or sheep, saying, ‘Every year I add one more,’ and I love that,” he said. “It’s a beautiful tradition, and it really helps us remember that overwhelming mystery of God’s humility in Bethlehem.”
2) The Advent Wreath: Waiting for the Light of the World
The second tradition is the Advent wreath, a simple yet deeply Christian symbol. Made up of four candles—one lit each Sunday of Advent—it reminds us that Jesus is the Light of the world, drawing ever closer.
“It’s because the Light of the world is approaching—the One who illuminates our lives,” Father Amorós explained. “That’s why lighting the candles of the Advent wreath is so beautiful.”
3) The Christmas Tree: The Gift of God’s Love
Finally, Father Amorós reflected on the Christian meaning of the Christmas tree. Far from being merely decorative, the tree represents Jesus Christ as the Tree of Life—the One who brings humanity the great gift of God’s love.
“It reminds us that Jesus Christ is the Tree of Life, the One who gives us the great gift of God’s love,” he said. “That’s why we place ornaments or gifts beneath it—they remind us of God’s greatest gift to the world, which is Jesus.”
Preparing the Heart for Christmas
Father Amorós emphasized that Advent is an interior journey—a time to put our lives in order and reconnect with our faith. He stressed the importance of silence and prayer as ways of making room for what truly matters.
He concluded by inviting families to live Christmas authentically, beyond social pressures and consumerism, and encouraged them to embrace small, concrete gestures that can transform both their homes and their hearts during this sacred season.